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Swinger fantasies: watch wife with another woman

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English: Lesbian show in Granada (Spain).

English: Lesbian show in Granada (Spain). (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

One of the many reasons I was interested to get into the swinger lifestyle was because I always had fantasized about seeing my wife have sex with another woman. My wife is bisexual, and we had talked about her interest in women, and we had watched lesbian porn together, and we had enjoyed a lot of sexy pillow talk, but nothing compared to seeing my wife kissing, touching, and enjoying another woman for the first time.

Why is watching my wife with another woman so sexy?

  • Double the pleasure: Women’s bodies are so soft, sensual and amazing. I love watching two women kissing each other, tasting each other, touching and caressing each other. It’s a beautiful vision that I want to remember forever.
  • Sharing the experience: At our most recent session of couple swapping group sex, I got to watch my wife going down on the other woman while the other woman took me in her mouth. We teamed up to pleasure and be pleasured by the same woman at the same time – an amazingly sexy experience for any couple to share.
  • Women know what to do: Women have a certain appreciation for each other – they know each other’s bodies, they know how to please each other, and it’s fun to see them enjoying each other in a special way that is different from what (most) men know how to do.
  • I get to join in the fun: One of the reasons straight guys love to watch women kissing and having sex is because we want to imagine ourselves getting into the middle of the action. In the swinger lifestyle, this fantasy actually gets to come true. Being swingers is like getting to appear in real-life porn – but it’s not all over the Internet.

Part of the reason why my wife and decided to explore the swinger lifestyle was because she wanted to explore her bisexuality for the first time. She had always felt attracted to women, but she had never kissed a woman or done anything with another woman – so the swinger lifestyle was appealing to us because it was a way for her to explore those feelings. And I was totally supportive of my wife getting to explore her bisexuality.

Apparently some men feel jealous when they find out that their wife is bisexual, but I never felt that way. I just thought, “Wow, I have a bisexual wife?!? That is so HOT!” (And even aside from my selfish motives, I wanted to support my wife in her journey and help her explore and express both sides of her sexuality.)

If any straight guys out there are reading this who have a bi-curious wife or bisexual wife, and you’ve never gotten to see her having sex with another woman…wow, I cannot recommend it highly enough. It is so great to see your wife kissing and tasting and being tasted and kissed by another woman. It’s so sexy seeing them pressing their bodies together, rubbing each other’s breasts and nipples, exploring each other’s curves and softness. Even if I never got to have sex with other women as part of the boundaries of our swinger lifestyle, it would still be worth the time and effort just to see my wife having sex with other women.

I guess I’m just really, really into lesbian porn. And you know what? I’m fine with that.

10 thoughts on “Swinger fantasies: watch wife with another woman

  1. How would you feel if she was with another man?

  2. I’m fine with it. It’s not quite as much fun as seeing her with another woman, but it doesn’t bother me. Some guys prefer to see their wife with another man – the “hotwife” and cuckold fetishists. I don’t quite fit into that category, but I like to watch my wife give or receive pleasure.

  3. I think most guys would prefer to watch their wife with another woman, if they are that way inclined. It’s an obvious fantasy. Phil (my husband) just enjoyed watching me. Period. Didn’t matter if it was with another woman or man, though my personal preference was usually another guy (actually, two guys!)

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